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9 Aug 2005, 16:10
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This really pisses me off.
People who are pally with you for a period of months, act absolutely ace, and get on seemingly really well with you, and who then suddenly stop speaking to you or returning your calls or whatever.
I can't figure it out.
I've had this happen to me more times than I can possibly remember. I don't know whether these people are emotional retards, or whether they just don't care about other people's feelings, but it pisses me off inordinately.
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9 Aug 2005, 16:16
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King of The Fat Boys
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Re: This really pisses me off.
That's odd, it's never happened to me.
You must just be a nob
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9 Aug 2005, 16:19
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Angry Young Man
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Re: This really pisses me off.
Is this in parody of the Nantoz thread, by any chance?
Theres nothing nice about it, but a lot of people just act friendly because its better than being horrible. You might have to reevaluate whether your relationships with these people were always as 2 way as you thought
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9 Aug 2005, 16:19
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Re: This really pisses me off.
I just cant be arsed, months go by before i realise (i have shit memory and i dont get bored easy, that and i never really liked them that much)
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9 Aug 2005, 16:21
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Gone
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Re: This really pisses me off.
I'm not talking about just being on conversing terms, I'm talking about a stage where you've becoming something approaching 'friends', and actually have talked together for hours, become quite close, etc and then bam.
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9 Aug 2005, 16:24
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Re: This really pisses me off.
just pm skiddy ffs
<3
sometimes im like that sometimes im dealt with like that, ive had loads of stuff going on in my life and been too busy/distracted to notice friends it kinda becomes normal not to talk to them as often, before you know it weeks then months have passed.
I suppose it just depends on what type of person you are, im happy meeting someone not seeing them fot ages then catching up with them, ive never been good at nice constant even relationships.
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9 Aug 2005, 16:35
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Gone
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Re: This really pisses me off.
I'm not talking about skiddy ffs.
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9 Aug 2005, 17:13
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Next goal wins!
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Re: This really pisses me off.
there is probably something you do after a few months that makes people detest you and cut off all contact.
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9 Aug 2005, 17:38
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Re: This really pisses me off.
There are swathes of people who don't treat friendships with much importance. You might notice that many of their closest friends are people they barely know (i.e. less than a year). With such people, it doesn't really matter if they cut people out of their life.
The problem is that these people are often the most friendly to new people. There seems to be quite a few people like this who I've met clubbing who seem to fit this sort of criteria.
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9 Aug 2005, 17:55
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Re: This really pisses me off.
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Originally Posted by Dante Hicks
There are swathes of people who don't treat friendships with much importance. You might notice that many of their closest friends are people they barely know (i.e. less than a year). With such people, it doesn't really matter if they cut people out of their life.
The problem is that these people are often the most friendly to new people. There seems to be quite a few people like this who I've met clubbing who seem to fit this sort of criteria.
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hmm?
could be coincedence or...
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9 Aug 2005, 18:10
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Clerk
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Re: This really pisses me off.
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Originally Posted by Deepflow
could be coincedence or...
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Or as I say could be linked to the type of person. If starting a "friendship" is a small deal to you then ending one is probably similarly unimportant.
I personally don't consider someone a friend until I know them very well. Others don't seem to hold this criteria. I personally don't usually speak to people I don't know when I'm out at a club (except when mashed, which admittedly is most of the time) but there are people who do/can/enjoy that. And these people (from my very limited personal experience) on the whole will have ten billion "friends" perhaps none of which know them that well.
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9 Aug 2005, 19:00
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Re: This really pisses me off.
I tend to get bored of people fairly quickly, even if I really like them. If I've been spending a lot of time with someone over a short period, I'll often not want to see them again for a while.
edit: I say 'people', but I mean pretty much everything.
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9 Aug 2005, 19:05
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Re: This really pisses me off.
happens to me all the time
But usually they're female.
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9 Aug 2005, 19:17
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King of The Fat Boys
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Re: This really pisses me off.
What kind of ship never sinks?
A friendship!
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9 Aug 2005, 20:09
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Re: This really pisses me off.
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Originally Posted by Ste
happens to me all the time
But usually they're female.
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the morning after amirite ?
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9 Aug 2005, 20:36
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Re: This really pisses me off.
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the morning after amirite ?
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Usually the morning before if you know what I mean
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9 Aug 2005, 20:38
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Re: This really pisses me off.
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Originally Posted by Ste
Usually the morning before if you know what I mean
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heh
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[20:27:47] <nodrog-aawy> **** i think my housemate just caught me masturbating
[11:25:32] <idimmu> you are a little piggy arent you
[13:17:00] <KaneED> i'm so closet i'm like narnia
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9 Aug 2005, 20:40
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Re: This really pisses me off.
i've done this to a couple people.
but i've always made it quite clear exactly why i'm cutting them off.
some people just move on faster than others.
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9 Aug 2005, 20:51
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Re: This really pisses me off.
im pally with new people at work
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9 Aug 2005, 20:58
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King of The Fat Boys
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Re: This really pisses me off.
You're just hoping you can score a hit.
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9 Aug 2005, 23:08
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Re: This really pisses me off.
I do this all the time.. no real reason for it either
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9 Aug 2005, 23:19
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Next goal wins!
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Re: This really pisses me off.
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Originally Posted by Toccata & Fugue
Yes but then you use them like puppets in your twisted web of in intrigue and deceit, before casting them aside at their most vulnerable only to add new minions to your collection you heartless bastard.
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10 Aug 2005, 02:08
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Re: This really pisses me off.
So when people get to know you they quit having anything to do with you?
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10 Aug 2005, 21:28
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Re: This really pisses me off.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Marilyn Manson
People who are pally with you for a period of months, act absolutely ace, and get on seemingly really well with you, and who then suddenly stop speaking to you or returning your calls or whatever.
I can't figure it out.
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Sorry, I've been busy.
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11 Aug 2005, 15:44
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Gone
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Re: This really pisses me off.
You're not my friend, you're just a piece of totty I met at a meet who broke my heart
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11 Aug 2005, 15:59
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NEWSBOT
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Re: This really pisses me off.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Marilyn Manson
You're not my friend, you're just a piece of totty I met at a meet who broke my heart
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compare and contrast
terror on his face , pleasure on yours.
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[20:27:47] <nodrog-aawy> **** i think my housemate just caught me masturbating
[11:25:32] <idimmu> you are a little piggy arent you
[13:17:00] <KaneED> i'm so closet i'm like narnia
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