This thread is about me, but also written by me, if you have a problem with that, I suggest you bugger off.
As described
here, I kissed a girl about 2.5 weeks ago. A girl named Nicky. The weeks 2.5 weeks (18 days to be exact) after that, were sheer fun. Really, people should have as much fun as me and this world would be a better place and communism wouldn't even come to peoples mind.
We write monday, 5th of december. Nothing ****ing happens. This might be the most boring day, or the day I least remember from the last days. That tuesday we have hockeytraining in the evening, but other then that, nothing really special, wednesday I work and I go into town to the pub. While I write this I must confess that from that week I remember very little, I think I was still recovering from the week before. My memory starts at thursday again, where I trained 3 teams (including the boys isntead of the girls for a change) and then went into town, where I met up with .... Nicky
. I went into town with my housemate, who for comedy reasons I tell you this, had a short relation with my sister this summer. We drink something, I meet up with Nicky, get introduced to her friends, one of those friends.......
Hohohohohohoho, I now realize that at wednesdayafternoon I met up with Niek in town to play some game in the pub (colonists of Catan), although I think I went into town with Bernadette first, to do some shopping, not entirely sure though. Nicky surprises us with a visit too and so does Els. Apperently girls know how to work a mobile phone too. I have to leave early for work, but Nicky escorts me to the train, where we kiss. This girl is ace.
Back to thursdayevening, I am getting introduced to some friends and acquintances, most I've already seen in the pub, but this one slutty girl is desperately trying to get my attention, her name is Myrthe, and she isn't getting my attention, bar some moment where Nicky and her best friend aren't there and she starts talking about nonsense, I really have no clue what she said and what I said, but I must've been charming.
Now Nicky has to go as she has work the day after, I escort her to her bike, her friends leave us alone for some minutes and then we kiss. It is going to be a 'thing', we both understand that and that afternoon I explained to her that I really do not want to rush things or do anything against her will. I mean, I really am into this girl, but as she is as pure as a glass of swiss alp-water, I really want to be careful. She tells me she's relieved I feel that way. She wants to do things in her own pace. I am more then comfortable with that. I just tease her a bit and tell her that I hope she doesn't lose intrest soon.
Ho-hum.
I get back into the pub and have a generally good evening with my housemate and some of his friends. Friday, training and getting trained and then some drinking at the club, I get home at 0130 and don't feel like going into town, so I hit the sack. That saterday I have to ref a match and then some coaching, at 1330 I am at the club, I leave at about 1900. The match I ref was fairly fun, as it is a high-level competion. My club wins and after that I watch some matches and then I coach my/our (Niek is also trainer coach) girls to a 1-1 draw against the leader. Note that my girls know very very well wich colours match with what. What the new shoes of the season are, but very few can in fact play hockey. So we are rather happy with the result.
That evening I go into town with a teammate, who is in fact at the moment a bit the target of my 'fabulous' ex-gf. She also meets up with us and after a while Bernadette and Els also join, soon after followed by Nicky. Now this gives a nice situation. My ex, who hardly speak with me, because she's pissed I told her her new BF would be dumped when she would go to uni within the month (I told her that 6 months ago). She said it went deeper and would go on far longer. Well, she isn't with him anymore, after a month of going to uni, and now targets for my teammate. Soonish after, Niek joins us, who is also an ex of my ex. Anyway, all this time I am being rather physical with Bernadette, as we always are, until Nicky arrives, then I actually become less physical, but at one part we kiss in the pub. Which, to my amazement, noone really notices. Anyway, I really have a good time in the pub, but we decide to go off to a club, moreover because some of Nicky's friends are there and my ex was being a bit of a bitch again.
We arrive at the club, and from then on, the only thing I remember is that I stand in some dark part of the club, together with Nicky, kissing and 1 meter away is her best friend kissing with another guy. This goes on for about 2 hours, I want to leave as I am tired, but we kiss some more, she's truely ace. This feels so ****ing good. I wish it would never end, but it does. The one thing I dislike about it is that it is a rather public place.
I get home at 05-something and then I wake up to play a match. I feel good, I feel nice, but our opponent is rather weak and we win 5-0, without any shot at our goal against. The only thing that is silly about that match is the referee, he should get a different hobby, birds or something. I have to work and then I get home and well, am generally bored.
Monday. Monday evening, more Catan and some beer drinking, tuesday I skip training as we don't have competition until march, so I think '**** it!'.
During these days I do attent my lectures, go to work, but there is generally no use for me, chat a bit but nothing more. No use expect a very, very small event of tuesday afternoon. Nicky visits my place. For the first time it is just me and her, instead of me and her in company of her friends or my friends. It is a fantastic afternoon. And I mean great. We kiss, we chat, kiss some more, and more and chat. Nothing other then kissing and holding happens, and I am actually we do take it this slow. God she's great.
Wednesday is when I get active again. It is now 14th of december, I meet up with Bernadette since I haven't seen her in a while, and we drink something, Els joins us too at some point but they leave early. I go to Niek, who has his birthday tomorrow, we drink some, we watch some telly and at 0000 I am the first to congratulate him. At 0040 we are bored and go back into town, play some Catan, drink beer and have a generally nice time. Get back to Niek's place, drink some more and for the first time in ages (years, literally) I am sick of alcohol, but fortunately, keep it inside.
Thursday is when I wake, thouroughly hungover, I do my shopping for my house Sinterklaasfest and we have a good time in our house, at 2130 we head off to Nieks party. We arive and our girls are there too, we have some fun with them, and that party is generally ace. One of my teammates and best friends is with me but he is a bit drunk. I sent him off home with my keys and bike and tell him I'll arive home at some point. Note that my house is about 1 km off Nieks house. 90 minutes later he calls me and he's in Enschede, 8 km off Nieks house. I underestimated the state of his drunkenhood. Anyway, Nieks party is ace and I could waste a whole post on all stupidities that happened there. The down part is that one of our girls is apperently thouroughly drunk and gets home with a black eye and her own vomit over her clothes. The other part is is that one of the other girls gets kissed against her will. I caress her a bit and escort her home to make sure she's alright.
Friday I wake up and, yes yes, another birthdayparty. Koens sis. I take a train, arive there and have a good time, I always appear to have a good time. Koen took a wrong bus, and instead of arriving 30 minutes early, he arrived 1 hour later then me. So be it. Koens other brother arrives with his gf, ****ING HUGE, 1 meters 88, and other guests arrive. Unfortunately, koens gf is a bit tired and they retire to bed early. They sleep in koens sis room, where we go to bed a few ours later too. Far too early we wake up, and koen and his gf take a ride with another guest home, while koens brother and I go into town for a bit of shopping with his GF who we meet there again, all fun and games, in between I've smsed all week with Nicky, but haven't seen her since wednesday.
I get home at 1800 and at 2000 I am watching Nicky and her game, she unfortunately loses, but I am happy to see her, we agree to meet up in town and so I do. Unfortunately, noone else of the usual suspects is in town, so I decide to frequent my usual pub first. Where a lot of acquintances appear and I have a good time with them until I meet up with Nicky and her friends, we go to the club, kiss a bit, but I am tired of all the partying of the two days before. Nicky and I have contact, but other then the week before, we do our own thing. I talk a bit with Michelle, Dennis/Scorpio visits me and later on I hit the dancefloor again to find Nicky and go back to the seating area of the club where we kiss, talk and at that point we become a thing. The look in her eyes beg for me and if I could look in my own it will most likely have said the same. This 18th of december. We go back to the pub, which is quiet now, as it is 0400, Niek is still working. The owner of the pub gives me a few drinks (I know this guy pretty well now as some weeks I visit his pub more then he does and I am always friendly and helpfull to the staff, who also all know me). I kiss a bit with Nicky but I make clear that I want to hit the bed, I am thouroughly wasted.
At 0615 I am in bed and I got this feeling in my belly which is nice, I fell asleep with a smile on my face, a housemate who works in a pub and checked up on me when she got home later told me.
Sunday I wake up late, 1530 and watch some hockey, but other then that, I do **** all. MSN all night with Nicky and tuesday I see her again. Monday I do very little, bar making an exam, which goes well, visitting Nicky at her place, her mom has her birthday and I thought it would be a good idea to show my face around that place too. Her mom is rather nice actually and I think I made a good impression, actually I know I have. I then go working and chatting with my mom when I visitted my parents.
Tuesday she visits me again, at 1100 she's at my place and at 1700 she leaves. I have the best afternoon of my life. Nothing bar some touching and kissing happens. We have good conversations, silly chats, but we barely come off the bed. We kiss, we just lay in eachothers arms. And it all feels so good. She goes home for dinner and training, but after training she visits me again. At 2300 I bring her home, and since I dropped her off at her place (a 10 minute ride) I have butterflies in my stomach, which are now fully dancing while I write this post.
Tomorrow she visits my place again, and I really look forward to it, so much it kept me out of sleep.
You think you have everything going by plan and then you fall in love.
I am a lucky bastard,
Theam
ps. yes tl; dr
pps. I know I should've had more sex with Nicky (and Koens sis!)
ppps. to be continued
Also: new years eve (after 0000) we surely meet up, unfortunately, my ex will also prolly be in our 'gang of merry friends', fortunately, Niek and other best friends, including Els and Bernadette are with us.
edit: My friend got home savely, while he was 8 km off direction, a little bit confused about the fact that he got there though.