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18 Sep 2003, 04:55
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Oh Canada!
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man, this bugs me
and some of you may have experienced it as well. (whay are all the good women/men always taken)
You see, I've been single for a bit over 5 years (bad, screwed up 1 1/2 year relationship), and it kinda turned me off dating(that's why I've been single for so long...duh). It's not that I don't want a girlfriend, it's just that I'm not looking...if one came along I certainly wouldn't turn and run....
So, anyways, I finally meet this 'fit bird' at college a few weeks ago, and it turns out we're neighbours so we've been hanging out quite a bit at school and home. I can't help but think that I've finally found someone 'worthy' of dating...we get along so well, tons of things in common, same sense of humor, etc.. and I really wanted to attempt persue something with her....but, I found out today that she has a boyfriend(only been together 5 months tho), but she's starting to doubt him(they don't have a whole lot in common, and he's apparently too nice), and she doesn't know if she wants to stay with him or persure another "more compatable" relationship, to which she smiled and winked at me. Then she went on to ask my advice, and I really didn't know what to say other than 'oooooh, that's a tough one'.
So, my question to you, the oh so genious populous of GD, what the **** do I do?
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Last edited by Dilly_D; 18 Sep 2003 at 05:03.
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18 Sep 2003, 05:18
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Damn Dog
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i reckon she wants an extra large portion of dilly_d, so just dont do anything to **** it up as it appears you are already 'working your magic'.
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18 Sep 2003, 05:22
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Condemned to RP
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Oh for the love of christ, just take her own words and agree with them that she might need a more compatible relationship. That way she'll be the one in every way that came up with it and all you did is reinforce her opinion, at the same time you are confirming that you are interested in her, because, that is the question really that she asked. She just asked you 'should I break up with my boyfriend' and you have to read between the girly lines and see 'do you think we should give it a go'. Say it sincerely and don't spend too much time on the subject.
By the way, you're an idiot for needing a thread for this on GD, if she finds out she'll dump you so fast.
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18 Sep 2003, 07:52
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King of The Fat Boys
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And if you do go out with her make sure you treat her like **** cos she doesn't like nice guys apparently.
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18 Sep 2003, 09:09
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Poster Professionale
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Not to let you down...
You'll end up with a compatible slut. I refer you to one of the main laws of relationships aswell as the 10 commandments: THOU SHALT NOT COVET THY NEIGHBOURS ETC. Not for a second should you believe she would not go shopping if she ends up in a relationship with you. Well done.
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18 Sep 2003, 12:31
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7 Dimensional Puddleduck
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I see everyone is getting well practiced at handing out the relationship advice...
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18 Sep 2003, 12:45
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Registered User
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fs just get her to dump the other boyfriend and slip her a length.
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18 Sep 2003, 13:15
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Miles Teg
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This is like will and grace.
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18 Sep 2003, 13:16
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lol
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Can I be the fruit?
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18 Sep 2003, 16:51
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Annoying Robot Thing
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Re: man, this bugs me
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Originally posted by Dilly_D
So, my question to you, the oh so genious populous of GD, what the **** do I do?
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oooooh, that's a tough one
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18 Sep 2003, 16:53
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Happy
Join Date: Mar 2001
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stay tuned for the next episiode of jenny jones
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18 Sep 2003, 16:58
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Old Man O Deh *****s
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Re: man, this bugs me
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Originally posted by Dilly_D
...I've been single for a bit over 5 years...
...if one came along I certainly wouldn't turn and run....
...I finally meet this 'fit bird' at college...
...we get along so well, tons of things in common, same sense of humor, etc...
...but she's starting to doubt him...
...she smiled and winked at me...
So, my question to you, the oh so genious populous of GD, what the **** do I do?
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I suggest you read your own post and figure it out yourself, Einstein.
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18 Sep 2003, 20:26
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Oh Canada!
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Re: Re: man, this bugs me
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Originally posted by Dead_Meat
I suggest you read your own post and figure it out yourself, Einstein.
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it's nice to see that we have such helpful, wise old men around to dish out the advice
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If I could be a bird, I'd be a Flying Purple People Eater because then people would sing about me and I could fly down and eat them because I hate that song.
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18 Sep 2003, 23:35
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WANNASEEMYNEWCHAINSAW
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Erm
That little "persue more compatable relationship" with the wink was a TEST.
Women do this alot...its too see if you want a relationship too
You should have said "YES!DO IT WOMAN!NOW!BREAK UP NOW!Heres a phone"
So now you've got to make it quite clear your looking to slip her some sausage!
Or she may misinterprate or just not dump him cause she's unsure what you want to do!
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18 Sep 2003, 23:39
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WANNASEEMYNEWCHAINSAW
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p.s. Go Dilly!
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18 Sep 2003, 23:46
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Last Of The Soul Reaver
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i say, meet the guy and say u hate him 2..
then she will agree.. and dump him and date u.,
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18 Sep 2003, 23:51
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7 Dimensional Puddleduck
Join Date: Apr 2000
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Re: Re: Re: man, this bugs me
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Originally posted by Dilly_D
it's nice to see that we have such helpful, wise old men around to dish out the advice
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He's only bitter because he thought he was Jesus's father until the lab tests came back.
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19 Sep 2003, 05:24
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Oh Canada!
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Quote:
Originally posted by slick
i say, meet the guy and say u hate him 2..
then she will agree.. and dump him and date u.,
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well, she doesn't hate him....she's just not sure if she's in the right relationship, and I don't want to be the as*hole that gets them to split up so I can date her, that's just not my thing. But, at the same time...I think she wants to date me...so would I really be an as*hole if I got them to break up so her and I can get together?
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If I could be a bird, I'd be a Flying Purple People Eater because then people would sing about me and I could fly down and eat them because I hate that song.
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19 Sep 2003, 05:55
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Happy
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on second thought.. if she's 'confused' now.. i'd be worried about her being 'confused' later :\
i mean come on. you either know it's going to work, or it isn't.
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