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Unread 17 Nov 2006, 20:02   #1
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Why don't we do it?

Some months ago, I was discussing how woman and men feel about relationships, marrying, romantic situations and so on. The discussion was with one of my two flatmates in the kitchen. She was waiting for her long time boyfriend to propose, thats why the topic came up. Then she asked me what I would do if I wanted to impress/seduce a woman.

Thinking about it for a sec or two, I said I would serve a starter and main course in a ordinary candlelight-dinner setting. Then I would ask her to go into the bathroom, where I had filled up the bathtub with hot water and some nicely smelling oils. Then I would serve dessert with a glass of white wine, while she was lying in the bathtub. Then after she was finished there, I could give her a message.

My flatmate said it was a good plan, and nodded to approve of it. This plan, or sequence of things, just popped up when she asked me. We guys knows the sterotype of what woman like.

Now, have I ever done something like this? No. Will I ever do it? Doubt it. I doubt many GD'ers have ever done such a thing too. Ok, it does take some effort in making the food and so on. And to impress, you should be atleast somewhat skilled in making food.

But think of the gains. You will impress her. It will be very romantic. You might get laid. When she ask you what you have done for her later, you can always refer to that episode.

So why don't we do these things? Wouldnt it be a very good "investment"?
Or is there anyone here who have actually done such a thing?
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Unread 17 Nov 2006, 20:09   #2
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Re: Why don't we do it?

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So why don't we do these things?
Because they're unnecessary.

Also, I'm not sure the girls who I've been out with would be impressed by that sort of thing. Mostly they seem to want someone to be horrible to them.
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Unread 17 Nov 2006, 20:43   #3
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Re: Why don't we do it?

"excuse me miss i have a wonderful plan to seduce you, if you'll just undress and get into this bath i'll begin ..."
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Unread 17 Nov 2006, 21:10   #4
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Re: Why don't we do it?

Oh yeah because spending time in stale water with a dirty toilet nearby, eating is such a very romantic idea...
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Re: Why don't we do it?

being female, cynical and horribly honest ...

unless it was in the general character type of the bloke, i would want to know.

1, what hes done wrong
2, how much its gonna cost to put right

or

3, what her name is
4, how long its been going on
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Unread 17 Nov 2006, 21:35   #6
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Re: Why don't we do it?

Thank you Mistwraith for the first serious and good answer. This was not ment as something one should do in a relationship that has been going on for some time (altrough it could), but as a 3rd date or a begining of a relationship, if you get where I want.
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Unread 17 Nov 2006, 23:52   #7
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Re: Why don't we do it?

I've done that kind of thing for a Valentine's meal.

But then when I'm in a relationship and happy I do go all lovey-dovey and stupid, with little gifts and stuff like that. Then I get bored and stop putting the effort in. Then she wonders why I've stopped being love-dovey. Then we argue. Then we break up.

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Re: Why don't we do it?

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but as a 3rd date or a begining of a relationship
I can't see you get her naked in a bath on the 3rd date, at least I can't see myself doing that

It's probably one of those things I'd want to do to a girl, but still something I probably would never do. I think a good meal would be my option, but since I'm usually cooking for myself (it's not BAD, just decent) I'll have to find a way to add that "little extra".

Like Tomkat said, you always tend to put in a lot of effort in the beginning of a relationship and after some months it just stagnates :/
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Re: Why don't we do it?

if we all do extraordinary things like that regularly - it detracts from the moment when you do propose.
Such a situation should be special - not just the norm
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Unread 18 Nov 2006, 00:33   #10
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Re: Why don't we do it?

It's not the details of this "plan" that is important, its the concept. Tomkats answer is quite interesting
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Re: Why don't we do it?

lol.. its unfortunately true what Tomkat says, I had the same experience.

It takes quite some effort to be over the top all the time for your partner and as soon as you stop just once suddenly something is wrong or you don't love her anymore
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Re: Why don't we do it?

I thought this thread was going to be about a world-wide Socialist revolution.

Comrade, you disappoint me.


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Re: Why don't we do it?

Any activity which involves the woman getting naked is hardly a subtle approach to attempting to seduce her. If she agrees to take her clothes off and get in the tub you could probably just as easily take yours off and climb in with her.

What Zhuk describes is much more appropriate to a serious relationship as an occasional spicer upper.

If you really want to impress a woman, be kind and thoughtfull on a daily basis over a long period of time. Most of them like that.
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Re: Why don't we do it?

I wooed my missus with a 10-year old Ford Maverick.
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Re: Why don't we do it?

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So why don't we do these things? Wouldnt it be a very good "investment"?

Because she is fking ugly and dont deserve romance.
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