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7 Jan 2004, 02:34
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Aardvark is a funny word
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by KoeN
skiddy seriously considering to suck a ****....:eek:
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7 Jan 2004, 02:34
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Re: Your best friend.
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It does seem like a bad situation now I've had an external point of view.
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Just say to him that you don't think it will be healthy for your relationship. You'll be able to practice with other men you meet, if he really wants it he can you to a massage parlour or something.
In terms of sexual stuff with friends, I think there specific boundaries. There are those who are your best best friends who are more like a brother or sister to you and then there are those who are close to you, but not that close, usually the ones you fancy or think you may end up settling down with. Then there are those on the periphary who could be platonic or sex.
You just have to decide where he is.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:35
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by queball
What's a bit of sexual tension between friends? It's there either way..
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Well, it depends on how well his friend has thought his through. I presume he's a sensible fellow or Skiddy wouldn't be considering it. But still, surely there's a chance his friend could see him differently after this? (Has your friend had any gay experiences?)
Let's "imagine" a hypothetical situation where I had a thing with some random woman. If it went wrong in some fashion, don't you think I'd think of that every time I saw her? At least I've got the opportunity to ignore her for the rest of time. If it's my best mate it's slightly harder.
I'd counsel the same thing (I think) if it was a lesbian friend asking for some ****, but I'm probably more conscious of how it might affect things.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:35
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Phang
capisce?
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You're talking crap. If you think that emotions and senitment for a person can just be 'adjusted' and that you can hop about shagging and BJing an intimate friend and suffer no emotional repercussions then you're sadly deluded.
It's like threesomes. You can't just say "oh well, I'm going to arrange to have sex with these two people that I know and it's just going to be nothing emotionally", because you're jumping to a pre-judgement. How do you know it's going to be nothing? You haven't done it yet.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:35
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Re: Your best friend.
So the friend doesn't get much oral and is happy to get it where he can, and skiddy wants the practice.
I think whatever happens in the short term, you will be doing him eventually, maybe next time you're both drunk and alone together
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7 Jan 2004, 02:35
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Re: Your best friend.
Erm...this sounds like a recipie for disaster skiddy
Run like the wind. It'll get weird,no matter what,it'll get weird.
Chances are,if you manage to go to a gay bar/club/hangout you'll find numerous ppl who are more than willing to let you 'practice' on em.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:39
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Phang
Bunga as the idling Aussie/Kiwi
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Bunga's Norwegian isn't he? Or Swedish? Or something?
p.s. not a paedophile.
p.p.s. is this whole thread a troll btw? Because it's rather good if it is.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:41
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Aardvark is a funny word
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Dante Hicks
Bunga's Norwegian isn't he? Or Swedish? Or something?
p.s. not a paedophile.
p.p.s. is this whole thread a troll btw? Because it's rather good if it is.
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true. he just seems aussie somehow.
all the 14 year olds
and i wasnt aware skiddy was gay but evidence was always there and its not that uncommon a situation
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7 Jan 2004, 02:43
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Phang
all the 14 year olds
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Aren't you like fifteen or something?
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7 Jan 2004, 02:44
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Re: Your best friend.
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Bunga
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Is it just me, or does this sound like an euphemism for a gay sex act?
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7 Jan 2004, 02:44
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Aardvark is a funny word
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Re: Your best friend.
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Aren't you like fifteen or something?
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yes, but dante isnt.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:45
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Re: Your best friend.
the weirdness factor of this for me is more so that his friend's gf is ok with it as its 'experimenting' since she doesnt provide much oral and that he has two kids by her oh and that she was more concerned with him leaving her alone in the pub then discussing him getting a blow job from his best friend.
i feel like an 80 yr old tutting and pointing his finger if you're worried about what will happen between the two of you, arent they fcking worried about their own relationship!!!
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7 Jan 2004, 02:45
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Marilyn Manson
Is it just me, or does this sound like an euphemism for a gay sex act?
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Everything is a euphemism for a gay sex act on this forum
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7 Jan 2004, 02:46
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Re: Your best friend.
I think this topic is an excellent candidate for Dear Deirdre btw
I reckon it would get in
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7 Jan 2004, 02:49
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Re: Your best friend.
to really get into dear deridre you need to include family
so instead of best friend you'd say my father in law who i get on really well with wants a bj, and my MIL and wife are fine with it but i think i might feel a bit funny playing darts in the pub with him after.
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7 Jan 2004, 02:50
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by lokken
Everything is a euphemism for a gay sex act on this forum
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No, seriously. It sounds like something I would read in the pages of Gay Times.
'Tories support anti-bunga bill.'
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7 Jan 2004, 02:51
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Re: Your best friend.
Slightly bizarre tangental question, but if you were sucking your best mate off, Skiddy, would he _say_ anything?
I mean, I'm sure he wouldn't say "Oh yeah, suck on it bitch!" on purpose, but these things, in the heat of passion, etc....
Wouldn't that be the weridest part?
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7 Jan 2004, 02:55
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Re: Your best friend.
maybe if you just said 'jonathon dear a little harder'
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7 Jan 2004, 02:57
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Re: Your best friend.
Where's Nodrog? Isn't he contractually obligated by Jolt to pop up and say something totally irrelevant about private property and Ayn Rand during these types of debates, or did I just dream it?
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7 Jan 2004, 02:59
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Aardvark is a funny word
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Marilyn Manson
Where's Nodrog? Isn't he contractually obligated by Jolt to pop up and say something totally irrelevant about private property and Ayn Rand during these types of debates, or did I just dream it?
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Karm sacked him*
*topical sucked him lol opion
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7 Jan 2004, 02:59
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Re: Your best friend.
He can bump this thread in Mid-Jan when he get's back, I'm sure. It's got homosexuality and anti-communism in it, how could he stay away?
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7 Jan 2004, 03:02
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Re: Your best friend.
will he really bother going through every thread since he left or will he just search for Nodrog?
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7 Jan 2004, 03:05
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Nusselt
will he really bother going through every thread since he left or will he just search for Nodrog?
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He'll probably just search to see if anyone has said anything about criminal law so he can criticise the fact that nobody has a right to property or shooting burglars under welfare-statism or something else that nobody cares about.
Then I call him a fag.
Repeat process ad nauseum.
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7 Jan 2004, 03:11
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Re: Your best friend.
How did a thread about homosexuality turn into a discussion of Nodrog???
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7 Jan 2004, 03:12
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by queball
How did a thread about homosexuality turn into a discussion of Nodrog???
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is there a link
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7 Jan 2004, 03:15
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Re: Your best friend.
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is there a link
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It's been proven by scientists.
Nodrog=Fagish.
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7 Jan 2004, 03:17
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Aardvark is a funny word
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Re: Your best friend.
he has a mate called Toggaf
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7 Jan 2004, 05:58
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Re: Your best friend.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Marilyn Manson
You're inviting complications if you get sexually involved with your best friend
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7 Jan 2004, 06:00
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Re: Your best friend.
Is this real? I mean...crap... the guy...well.... it is so...grosse.......well... Im...like............lost for words.
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7 Jan 2004, 07:27
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Re: Your best friend.
why not
its not like you live more than once
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7 Jan 2004, 08:40
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Sarina_Joy
maybe he is secretly bicurios
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I have a collection of bicurios.
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7 Jan 2004, 09:43
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Re: Your best friend.
It's too late. Despite all of the obvious consequences you are going to end up going down on him. Sexual tension has been built, pressure from you social circle has been laid upon you, and you've gone to lengths of discussing the situation on GD. All your doing now is wasting time until the both of you get drunk and find a dark corner.
It's not a big deal. You're friend is the bajillionth straight guy to get a blowjob from his impressionable gay friend. It'll probably be wierd later, less because of actual sexual tension and more because all of your friends know about it. As a rule when you **** around within the circle it's better to keep quiet about it. You'll probably get a new clique of gay friends anyway now that you're out so maybe it's best to go out with a bang anyway.
Oh well, have fun and be safe.
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7 Jan 2004, 12:56
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Re: Your best friend.
For the record, there is no such thing as a bisexual. If you screw same sex you are gay, pure and simple.
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7 Jan 2004, 12:58
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Re: Your best friend.
Then we'd need some other way of differentiating between "pure" homosexuals and those that like to mix it up a bit.
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7 Jan 2004, 12:58
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Re: Your best friend.
I'll get onto the OED for you duder
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7 Jan 2004, 13:01
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I am an idiot
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Re: Your best friend.
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Then we'd need some other way of differentiating between "pure" homosexuals and those that like to mix it up a bit.
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They would be called 'dirty b*stards', slipping our girls a length with their aids up willies.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:02
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Re: Your best friend.
When can we get around to banning CT?
And Spike for that matter.
JC, get go!
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7 Jan 2004, 13:02
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Re: Your best friend.
What if they've only had a blow job from a guy, it's unlikely their "willies" are aids'd up then isn't it?
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7 Jan 2004, 13:02
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Re: Your best friend.
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What if you have sex with a transexual, what are you then?
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fking stupid!
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7 Jan 2004, 13:05
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Re: Your best friend.
hear hear
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7 Jan 2004, 13:05
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Re: Your best friend.
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fking stupid!
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Even if they're fit?
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7 Jan 2004, 13:10
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by MrL_JaKiri
JC, get go!
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I'm trying to revise man .
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7 Jan 2004, 13:19
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Re: Your best friend.
I find, when revising men, Leshy is a good place to start.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:21
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Re: Your best friend.
I belive you are what you are born, either male or female, and that alternative sexualities are almost always the product of environment and upbringing and as such can be reveresed without the need for anyone to physically alter themselves. So to me, no matter what a person looked like if they told me they was born a man, they are a man and chose to look like a woman, it turns me off and repulses me.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:30
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Re: Your best friend.
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Yeah but you believe that cos you don't know very much about it do you?
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I know as much and probably more than most.
To my knowledge, to date they haven't found a 'gay gene' and it is fantasy to think that one exists, this in itself suggests gays are largely a product of upbringing and enviromnent, an anomaly if you like.
Neo was an anomaly in the Matrix and Keanu Reeves is gay, all the proof you need innit.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:32
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Re: Your best friend.
They haven't found a gene for intellegence*, but it's not fantasy to suggest that there is a genetic element.
Even if there isn't a base in the genetic code, why are you repulsed by the exercise of free will?
*Bugger off london commies, not going through that again
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7 Jan 2004, 13:39
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by Toccata & Fugue
We weren't talking about homsexuality we were talking about transexuality.
Your pronouncements about a "gay gene" are neither here nor there, clearly a persons sexuality is not just socially conditioned, there is very likely to be an evolutionary element to it. Stephen Jay Gould argues pursuavesvly for the existence of inherent homosexuality.
You may no more than most but you seem to have not displayed any of that knowledge, but instead celebrate your ignorance.
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I do not recognise any alternative sexuality as being anything other than gay.
Althought it may be likely there are evolutionary elements to sexuality it is also just as likely it is not, you cannot factor this in until facts are demonstrated.
Stephen Jhay Gould can argue all he likes, but I doubt he could change my view without scientic proof.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:40
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Re: Your best friend.
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Originally Posted by CrashTester
To my knowledge, to date they haven't found a 'gay gene' and it is fantasy to think that one exists, this in itself suggests gays are largely a product of upbringing and enviromnent, an anomaly if you like.
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Someone did find a locus on the Y chromosone that seemed to have some sort of link with homosexuality. It was a boring lecture so slept through most of it, but it was pretty controversial stuff and didnt explain lesbians because it was on the Y chromosome.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:43
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Re: Your best friend.
im gay and i personally wouldnt but any of my straight male friends in that position.
however i can say that if you are that close friends you shoud be able to let anything you feel comfortable with happen and it shouldnt effect your friendship.
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7 Jan 2004, 13:45
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Re: Your best friend.
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Althought it may be likely there are evolutionary elements to sexuality it is also just as likely it is not, you cannot factor this in until facts are demonstrated.
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If there's no reason for being gay apart from social conditioning and pressures (and individual choice, ofc) then why do some species of animals show homosexual tendencies (especially in instances of high population density)?
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