Im having a friend who treats his gf (whom he lives with) rather badly.
He has been showing some classical signs of a possible wife-beater from what his gf has told me. His drinking and weed smocking also effects her negativly.
typical signs:
*rages, so she is scared to take up things with him
*trying to preventing her to stay more than two weeeks with her family, away from him
*treating her better when there is other people present
Have anyone else been in this position? During the time when his gf was away to visit her family, I had a chat with him. I had the feeling he wasnt beeing totally honest with me. Later Ive tried to follow up, but he avoids the subject all together.
Why is it so damn hard to take those discussions, specially with friends?