What is your major malfunction?

[vampy]

This is a thread for people to state what they see as their biggest flaws.

It's not a thread for saying 'I don't have any because I'm perfect', nor for mocking one another.

I am genuinely interested in what parts of themselves people see as problematic, as well as their ways of dealing with them.

Personally I'd see my most problematic flaws as:

procrastination: When i have something I need to do but don't want to, I often (almost always) worry and stress and think about it, rather than just getting the **** on with it, meaning I can easily spend two weeks worrying about doing something that would actually take me about 10 minutes to do if i just got on with it.

Not caring what people think: While this is often a positive thing, I think I take it too far and say things that are very easy to take out of context and give people a false impression of who I am. I do try to censor myself more in certain contexts, and sometimes I suceed (for example, I don't swear in front of other people's parents), but in general (especially online) I tend to say things that may alienate people and make them think I'm a completely different person to the 'real' me.

I always want to help people: Again, not in itself a bad thing, but it often leads me into relationships with self-destructive people who have no desire to change. The end result is either that I 'save' them, and they stop needing me, or that I can't do anything, and I get too emotionally involved, which inevitably leads to me getting hurt.

I'm sure I have many more flaws, but to me those are the ones I feel have most negative impact on my life.

Now tell me yours!