[Munkee]

I guess I have a bit of experience in removing people from alliances.

Based on this experience I can say drama ends much quicker than you would like to think. If you kick and remove in the right way and lead correctly, you might just not even notice the person has gone.

If people do notice then it is always for the right reasons and not wrong. I can't remember a time ever removing someone from an alliance that hasn't been welcomed by the majority. You just have to have the right justification. Those who kick up a fuss..well they are typically already on the list to also be removed anyway.

Bad apples have to go and after reading through all of these posts I believe coolkat should have kicked tia. I suspect he actually wanted Tia to leave but it's kind of better to be the one dumped rather than the person doing the dumping sometimes, especially if the feelings are mutual, it saves you having to give explanations.